Re: RARA-AVIS: Real guys don't worry a whole lot about if they're real guys or n

From: Robert Elkin ( rictusaporia@yahoo.com)
Date: 27 Mar 2008


Not being ironic, just using the term as it's meant--the behaviours/features a society considers "masculine," usually imported from the past but often created wholesale, create "masculinity." Those male features you're born with, of course, create your "sex." And how you perform your "self" (or "selves") is your "gender" (where the other two meet--feminine &/or masculine)
(NB:I don't think we're in disagreement except in terminology.)

----- Original Message ---- From: jacquesdebierue < jacquesdebierue@yahoo.com> To: rara-avis-l@yahoogroups.com Sent: Thursday, March 27, 2008 12:53:47 PM Subject: Re: RARA-AVIS: Real guys don't worry a whole lot about if they're real guys or n

                --- In rara-avis-l@ yahoogroups. com, Robert Elkin <rictusaporia@ ...> wrote:
>
> Ah, "masculinity, " just like "femininity" is always a social
construct anyway. Mostly arbitrary stuff.

I take it you're being ironic. A person's sex is the most important differentiating characteristic. The biological world is sexed, very strongly so. Perhaps you're thinking of "roles", in the modern and even postmodern sense? If so, playacting has no limitations, of course, or at least a much wider latitude. If you start from what historically is only a few miliseconds ago, you're unlikely to arrive at anything substantial. Think of the history of humans... we're been around for a long time.

But it looks like we're veering away from literary portrayals, which are our thing.

Best,

mrt

    
                                  
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